Discovering Resiliency

Activity for discovering our own resiliency:

What's in my wallet?          Have participants pair up and sit knee to knee.  Have them share one thing they have in their

                                      purse or wallet, or on their person, that is connected in some way to their personal resiliency.  They should show the object and explain how it connects to their resiliency.

Activity for discovering our own resiliency:

Naming others'          Have participants pair up and sit with another pair.

Resiliency Builders          Each person introduces his/her partner by identifying at least one personal resiliency builder the partner has (see handout) and share why this resiliency builder describes the partner.

Activity for discovering our own resiliency:

Who and What          In groups of four, have participants take turns

Made me Resilient?          sharing their answers to these questions:

                                      Who made me Resilient?

                                      What made me Resilient?

                                      How did they do it?

                                      Who keeps me Resilient now?

                                      What keeps me Resilient now?

                                      How?

Activity for discovering our own resiliency:

Top Resiliency          Each participant looks at the list of personal

Builders                          resiliency builders, identifying the three they use most when they are facing stress, tragedy or other adversity.

                                      Have participants raise their hands as you call out each of the resiliency builders.  Keep track of the number of participants that identify each as one of their top three.

Activity for discovering our own resiliency:

Using Personal          Have participants work in groups of 5-6 and take

Resiliency Builders          turns sharing their top three resiliency builders, and a time they used one of them to deal with a difficult situation.

Activity for discovering our own resiliency:

Adding to Our Own          Have participants work in groups of 5-6 and take

Resiliency Builders          turns sharing one personal resiliency builder that

                                      they are working on, or think they should work on,

                                      and ideas about how they can increase this personal resiliency builder.

Activity for discovering our own resiliency:

Drawing                          Have participants use crayons and paper to draw

Resiliency                       their representation of what resiliency looks like/feels like inside of them.

                                      Have them share their drawings in small groups.

                                      Display these drawings in a location where all participants can view them.

Activity for discovering our own resiliency:

Reflecting Upon          Have participants answer these questions:

Resiliency                       Do you feel more resilient than you did before the study group?

                                      How does it feel?

                                      How did it happen?

                                      Do you feel more able to successfully cope with a personal problem or make a personal change?

                                      What does this mean for the work you do? 

                                      What does this mean for your personal life?

Activity for discovering our own resiliency:

Resiliency                       Have participants work in groups of 5-6.

Blizzard                          Have each person write down on a slip of paper a sentence or two that conveys a message they would like to receive more often from others that would help them feel more resilient.

                                      Participants wad up their slips of paper and throw them into the center of the table.

                                      Each person selects a slip of paper from the center (not their own) and reads it aloud to the group.

                                      Group members then discuss: Is there any common theme in what group members have written?

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